“What To Wear On A First Date”

     If someone ever invented a magic fashion wand or a foolproof manual of dating rules for singletons, they'd be very rich indeed.

     Until that happens, what you can do is take heed of some style advice that will ensure you look your very best on your first date, and give yourself every chance of successfully negotiating date number two! ;-)

     Style is quite simply wearing what suits us- and anyone can learn how to dress for maximum dating success.

     Personal style is not about designer labels, the latest celebrity trend or must-have accessories... it's about having the confidence and self awareness to make the very most of what you have.

     It's about concentrating on the GOOD bits, to help you arrive on a first date oozing genuine appeal and confidence.

     Follow these tips for instant dating success...

     Tip #1: Remember, LESS is MORE.

     When it comes to looking ALLURING, you want to look mysterious... not cheap.

     This is NOT the night for long red nails or bright red lips; they're both too obvious a sign to a man that you are interested.

     Tip #2: Wear discreet jewelry, not masses of gold...

     Tip #3: Looking "too trendy" can also be a bad idea. Your best friend might be jealous of your outfit, but your date may find it plain scary.

     Tip #4: Use a color corrector (green colored foundation) as a base if you are prone to blushing or flush when you drink alcohol.

     Tip #5: Never try and shop for a new outfit on the day of the date; life never works like that!

     You will get increasingly stressed and rarely will you find your dream outfit.

     Tip #6: Make sure you wear a bra that fits you properly and feel confident showing off a hint of cleavage.

     It's amazing how many women wear the wrong size... and it shows. Tip #7: If in doubt, think Meg Ryan... rather than Madonna- a mysterious feminine look is a winner with most men.

     Here is a quick list of the definite date do's and the definite date don'ts for quick reference...

     DO have clean hands and nails... we all notice hands and "grubby" is a major turn off.

     DO have a snack before you go out to curb the hunger pangs, settle butterflies in your tummy and stop your first drink from going straight to your head.

     DO choose just one area of your body you are happy to reveal.

     DO make time to wash your hair, it always shows if you haven't bothered.

     DO remember less is more in every respect on a date, be it bronzer, perfume or jewelry.

     DO wear clothes that fit properly; spilling out of clothes that are too small looks plain awful.

     DON'T start drinking when you're getting ready.

     DON'T wear clothes that aren't appropriate for the chosen venue.

     DON'T dress like a totally different person from the way you would normally.

     DON'T take over the top presents with you- flowers or a small gift the day after the date would be better.

     DON'T reveal intimate secrets or draw attention to defects, real or imagined.

     DON'T wear too much jewelry- it often looks too tacky.

     Of course, these tips and strategies cover just one tiny aspect of everything it will take for you to make your first date SUCCESSFUL!

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     I'll talk to you again soon.

     Your Friend,

     
     Sarah Jane

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